so, got all the relays wired, fuse block, grounds, wireless controller..... and then found out i was looking at incorrect info when i wired it. swapped the 87 and 87a on the output. so as soon as i put the fuse in, the system goes live and turns off when i flip the switch on lol.
not a big deal, i mounted all the components to an aluminum plate with velcro so i can change them as needed.
gotta swap 5 terminals and all will be right.