Putting any power to 13 is turning on the bulb (parking signal is keeping it constant, turn signal is making it blink), but while that's going applying any power to 16 is turning the relay OFF instead of switching polarity. So if I have the parking signal to 13, and put turn signal to 16, the bulb turns off when pin 16 is getting power. If I have turn signal to 13, and put parking signal to 16, the bulb completely stays off until I take power off pin 16.
Is this the wrong relay or something? Mini DPDT PC Relay from Radioshack. I can't think of anything else to try lol
Edit: This is what I bought
12VDC Coil DPDT Miniature PC Relay - RadioShack.com
Edit 2: I also want to add that I tried to put a straight wire bypassing the diodes on both pin 1 and 4 one at a time, did not make a difference so I do not believe those diodes are in backwards