So you do have the stock 9006s now?
If you have 12v at either low beam connector...
....and you have continuity through the bulb...
It should turn on. If not, apply 12v to the bulb to verify that it works.
And if it does, and doesn't work in the truck, then you'll have to do voltage drop tests through the wiring. It isn't hard, I just don't have pics.
In the stuff I posted above, we are testing everything after pin 4 of the HDM. After we get that straightened out, we'll go to the control side of things. It makes no sense to do control side first if there is a problem on the output side.
I'm going out in a few to get my A5 readings and verify pin 5s polarity. Just for you Kevin.
Edit - just got back with pics
I have the same DRL kill w/auto mod that you do. I backprobed the relay at the pink/white vehicle side.
Headlamp switch ON shows GROUND on my dmm with the positive lead hooked up to 12v and the negative lead backprobing A5 (vehicle side) at the relay. You should also have this at the BCM side of A5 at the relay.
Headlamp switch OFF
From A5, vehicle side, that circuit is a straight shot to pin 5 of the HDM.
Dmm positive at positive battery terminal, dmm negative at pin 5 of the HDM, headlamp switch ON
Headlamp switch off
If 12v is applied to A5, I would imagine the HDM would not work.