To revisit some of the stuff I was hinting at last week, there's a white wire that runs from the headlight switch, back to the BCM which tells it to activate the low beams (and sends voltage through the pink/white wire that you're applying the jumper wire to) You need to check for voltage on that pin coming into the BCM to see if that's the problem. I believe you said you had voltage coming out of that wire on the switch...
Your description of your HID setup was slightly confusing. Your HID bulb went into what socket?
The OEM low beam should plug into the 2 pin connector on the ballast (or OEM plug into an adapter, which then goes into the 2 pin connector of the ballast) There are 2 single pin connectors coming out of the ballast which plug into the pair of single connectors on the HID bulb.