I got this crimper and....it crimps!!! Instead of buying the connector kits again I'm just going to get the pins, crimp/solder new leads, and reuse the connectors. Then undo the cut wire version and slap the harnesses back in. It will be cheaper and faster to do it this way.

Both blue wires and your wire coming from the trailer harness can go in one crimp connector (make sure you tape it up) or solder and heat shrink them.
Sounds like your parking lights are backfeeding into your turn signals somewhere.
Do you have 1 wire (per side) feeding both bulbs like this pic?
Your blood's worth bottling!!

I was gonna say Matt is just a trouble maker, but I guess that explanation works too... 
