Update - ABS light is functional. I pulled the ABS fuse both to check the light and to see if it changed the pedal feel with no power going to the EBCM. The ABS light illuminated and the "Service Brake System" message appeared on the dash. No change in pedal feel or brake behavior was noticed.
I also checked continuity on the ABS fuse and it appears to be good.
Pulled the pump and EBCM off the car. I don't see anything that would raise suspicion. Connector pins all look perfect, there has been zero intrusion of water or debris into any of the electrical connectors. Will try continuity testing once it's figured out where exactly I need to probe.
Pic of the pulled EBCM below.
The female connector end on the right is occupied by a male connector attached to the pump motor, which has only two wires running out of it. It seems its only purpose is to allow the EBCM to supply power to the pump when it commands it on.
The other two female connector ends on the left are occupied by male connectors running out of the wiring harness on the vehicle. I assume the one with a bunch of little pins is for data, and the other with two big pins is for power.
Regarding the pump motor, I pulled it off the valve block and there is no way whatsoever for brake fluid to enter the motor. It is completely isolated and there is seemingly no reason whatsoever for it to care at all about whatever is going on in the valve block. It isn't even mechanically connected to it, it uses what looks like a cam to actuate two spring loaded plunger things inside the block.
Pump motor cam pictured below, followed by where it mates to the block. You can see the two spring loaded plunger things that are responsible for the marks on the motor. The plungers move freely, they're not locked up.
The valves are, unfortunately, unserviceable, at least not without a lot of effort and something akin to a small machine shop. They are pressed into the block and appear to have somehow been staked in place using a metal dowel or something, hard to tell. Tried actuating them with a strong magnet and got an audible click out of all six, but I can't say
what that click was. None sounded significantly different from the others.
Point being I have nothing resembling an answer yet.