Well I decided to check all things that could be bad causing this....I pulled the spark plugs, and they were all trash......I had iridiums acdelcos in there.....It completely burnt the fine wire off of all of them......I'm guessing where I drove it so long with it missing randomly when the actuator was bad......I replaced those, and went ahead, and put a new fuel filter on, cleaned the throttle body again, new air filter......It is running great now....I have been driving it for a couple weeks, and it hasnt missed once......So I think it all started with the actuator going bad, and it just ruined the plugs where I drove it so long randomly missing......Thanks for all of the help guys I appreciate it....