good testing... maybe 
sorry if I appear hard on you, but when I am working with your hands and eyes, then my head sometimes forgets this... if it was all me, I would be swearing when either my head, hands or eyes are not "co-operating"...
Anyways, something still fishy, first now you can't cause a "start noise" with your wire jumping so that's annoying and certainly not predicable based on your number of previous attempts. Second, your observation and test of the pin 85 contact doesn't jive. I do believe if you watch the video (again), you will see / hear him asking the "helper" to turn the key to start... NOT "ON". Further, I don't believe there is a ground put on there otherwise as that would cause the relay to always be operated which it shant be.... so the light should not light when the key is OFF or ON but only at "start".... at least that's what the video shows, that's what the posted circuit diagram shows and that's what my head tells me...
Regardless, pin 85 only has "impact" if you are trying to get the "key" mode of operation working. It has NO impact if you do your wire jumper technique as you have found in the past. I would suggest that your wire jumper is either not making contact properly or the base of the fuse block has an issue... probably / maybe. When you are placing the wire jumper in the contact points, are you seeing any sparking as you did at the starter???? A fuse block issue could explain why some other things are not working also.

sorry if I appear hard on you, but when I am working with your hands and eyes, then my head sometimes forgets this... if it was all me, I would be swearing when either my head, hands or eyes are not "co-operating"...

Anyways, something still fishy, first now you can't cause a "start noise" with your wire jumping so that's annoying and certainly not predicable based on your number of previous attempts. Second, your observation and test of the pin 85 contact doesn't jive. I do believe if you watch the video (again), you will see / hear him asking the "helper" to turn the key to start... NOT "ON". Further, I don't believe there is a ground put on there otherwise as that would cause the relay to always be operated which it shant be.... so the light should not light when the key is OFF or ON but only at "start".... at least that's what the video shows, that's what the posted circuit diagram shows and that's what my head tells me...

Regardless, pin 85 only has "impact" if you are trying to get the "key" mode of operation working. It has NO impact if you do your wire jumper technique as you have found in the past. I would suggest that your wire jumper is either not making contact properly or the base of the fuse block has an issue... probably / maybe. When you are placing the wire jumper in the contact points, are you seeing any sparking as you did at the starter???? A fuse block issue could explain why some other things are not working also.
. I will do a little search on that since I'm sure others have come across this before. Thanks again guys for everything! One step closer to being a TB expert