If I can recommend something but it would require a little extra work, not just be drop in. I would ditch the 3.5's in the dash and put a tweeter in there, one on each side. I have that in my envoy along with another tweeter in the lower part of the A pillar and it sounds great for the high stage of it. For the doors I have 6.5" midrange speakers in there. As for power limits, are you planning to get an aftermarket amplifier for the door speakers or keep the install simple and just power it off the BOSE amp? The reason I ask is to get a better understanding and maybe even recommend an amp/speaker setup for your mids and highs.
Also just a heads up having the BOSE setup means with an aftermarket setup you need to get a fairly costly harness adapter that will make an aftermarket radio work with the BOSE setup.
If you are keeping the speakers run off the stock amp and don't want to get into some modifications then a 3.5" that is maybe around 30-40w RMS. Those 3.5's never go really high in power capabilities and TBH I was never a fan of them, I prefer to run components that have the midrange and tweeter separate. I find that components sound better when setup properly but thats my preference. You may have your own and that is perfectly acceptable.