misterhyde said:
Any idea on what I could use as a ground back there?
Any unpainted part of the body, or a screw or bolt head. Or scratch through the paint in an unseen area. Lots of folks (not you) assume that black wire grounds are always trustworthy, and especially in the case of the liftgate, they are not.
Think of the power wire as a conductor that has to deliver 12V with low lossage to the load. A partial break in the wire adds resistance, and resistance steals power. Instead of delivering let's say 10 Amps (120 Watts) to the load, a high resistance in the path might steal half of that power, so only 60 Watts, or 6V, gets delivered to the load. Since current in a series circuit can't disappear (a fundamental rule of electricity), what happens is that voltage is used up in the wiring and connections instead of being fully delivered to the load.
But ground wires can be thought of the same way. A ground wire is a conductor that is supposed to deliver ZERO volts to the load. A place where the current can drain out and get to the frame or body of the truck, and then flow freely back to the ground side of the battery or alternator.
A bad ground wire will not be sitting at zero volts, when compared to a known good ground like a frame screw head.
That's why it's most useful for troubleshooting to make two measurements with your meter to the defogger grid terminals. One from a known good ground to the 12V side, and another one from a known good ground to the "ground" side of the grid. Then you know if your high resistance problem is on the current delivery path or the current drain-off path. Thinking about electrical current as water flow, and voltage as pressure, and switches/relays as valves, and wires as hoses, is the way I usually discuss it with folks new to the concepts.