Sorry I was in Wisconsin for my brother's wedding.
If you have a new TCCM, and your switch doesn't even recognize that you move it from 2HI to A4WD, then the switch is an immediate suspect. They redesigned it in 2005 for increased reliability, and they're relatively cheap even at your local dealer.
You can also run it CW and CCW 100 times or so to try to clean off the contacts.
Once you get the switch to attempt to change modes, then we can deal with the functionality of the front axle disconnect and the transfer case encoder motor.
Has the transfer case fluid been changed religiously every 50K?
When you turn the mode switch from 2HI to 4HI, can you hear EITHER of the two motor sounds you're supposed to?