I hear ya, I ran without the vm-1 and vu-din for years before I installed it on my truck this summer. I have yet to do my roof and it needs it badly. What I did to help it a little is make it so the roof brace is at the rear most position and then the other is right behind where the rear door ends at the C pillar.
The rear hatch wasn't that bad for me to do. I did slice my hand up pretty good sticking my arm into the panel to get the deadener to stick but I ripped off the panels, removed the control module in the lift gate, removed the license plate area completely from the inside (it is held in with 4 hex nuts and removes from the outside so you can reach in through there but be careful, you can disturb the rubber seal for that and make it leak into the gate for water). I then cut several pieces of damplifier pro and rolled it onto the panel.
I only have a single sub. I am running an Ascendant audio SMD 18 (it's the first version of the sub, not the newer version) and it is a dual 1 ohm coil. I have it running at .5 ohms resting on a DC audio 5.0k. I run a sundown audio sax-200.4 for the mids and highs and then have 4 XS power d3100's in the back and an XS power D3400 under the hood. I have all 1/0 OFC wire except for the sundown amp which isn't that critical to have OFC to me, performed the big-3 upgrade.