"I guess what I don't see / understand how this can be in my case. If the mount was an issue..."
As preface in response to your mentioning this, my reading of your Threads and Posts is part of WHY I am now able to understand so many things... so much better... Thanks to your participation here at GMT Nation.
It follows that more than most Folk, I understand and recognize that
"All Knowledge is Derivative..." and in this case, what follows in hand to bear out WHY the Bad Motor Mounts are CENTRAL to solving this problem by replacing them at the same time when installing a New Exhaust Manifold with the New Fasteners... Comes
NOT from me... But from a Brilliant, Elder Greek Mathematician to assist with our understanding of Geometry... and
LEVERAGE:
His name was and is...
Archimedes. He once postulated,
"Give me a Place to Stand, a Fulcrum and a Long Enough Lever...and I could Shift The Earth".
The transmission in the modern motorcar -- the mechanism that makes it possible to have three forward speeds and a reverse -- is a series of levers, levers...
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Consider the Design of the Exhaust System from Nose To Tail in the
Very Tall and Top Heavy GMT360 4.2L LL8 Engines with the tendency to
REALLY Tip from Side To Side during RPM increase and decrease as well as when making Left and Right Turns... and
STRESS those Manifold Bolts and the Exhaust "Y" collection point as the CAT Can and Piping
RESIST this dynamic motion.
Notice the similarities in the Mechanical Advantage that the CAT Piping sustains all the way down to the Muffler and Tail Pipe have over the Motion of the Engine Block ROTATING ON ITS CENTER LINE ...WHILE IMPARTING A TORSION THAT STRESSES THOSE AREAS OVER AND OVER ...
JUST PAST THE FULCRUM IN THE "Y" PORTION OF THE E-M WEBBING ... IN THIS LENGTHWISE ANALOG OF:
(1) A MASS (2) A FULCRUM AND (3) A LEVER.:
Whenever Ductile Cast Iron is Flexed... Over and Over... its internal Crystalline Structure is under constant Tension and Compression ...Over and Over... until those Large, Asymmetric Cast Iron-Carbon Crystals gradually heat up from internal friction and manage to decrease enough in size, such that the local metal areas become Very Brittle and Weak...
All the way down to an Atomic Level... and finally, they propagate CRACKS along the Weakest Points of Stress... and the Metal Mechanically FAILS.
In this Case... Observe ALL of the
Red Dots in all of the images as being that special location. Failure due to the excessive back and forth motion of the Engine Block moving on top of
Failed Engine Mounts in response to increasing and decreasing RPM and Torque... ALWAYS ends in the same, inevitable way ...
With Stressed and Broken Bolts Parting and Cracks in the "Y" Webbing of ALL Cast Iron Exhaust Manifolds Occurring. The Physics and Metallurgy involved here are immutable for this unfortunate outcome.