With key off and relay in, check if there is power at fuse 22 (IGN E), if there is, pull that fuse and see if the clutch disengages. If it does, then something is feeding that fuse when it shouldn't. If it doesn't (relay still powered), then something between the fuse and relay is feeding that circuit. Test and report your findings.
PS: Do not run the compressor in this state as it is a cycling clutch system and if the PCM is unable to shut off the compressor, it can either freeze up the evaporator or, worse, overpressure the high side and explode.
i tapped a wire at the ac compressor socket to a testing lamp with long wire and i put that lamp on the front glass to monitor while I'am testing and following the diagrams under hood and inside the car at front and rear hvac
i think the pre owner did something to the rear hvac , near the blower motor , i saw a wires that dont look like oem work > tomorrow I will remove that plastic covers and I think I had to remove the 3rd row seat for a full access to the unit
until now 2 relays worn out "stuck engaged" , i don't know how and why ! only the relay get damaged , and the ac fuse is still ok , so i make a simple test and touched the ac clutch wires to see if the fuse will blown or no , and it does , blowned !
i noticed that the relay bottom right pin is hard to seat .( that feeds the ac clutch as described in
@TJBaker57 post )
tomorrow i will keep testing , and I will keep updating the post
BTW thanks for the reminder about not turning the ac on as long it will not disengage at all and will damage the system , also your advised "in another post" scan app "scan gauge pro" and car gauge pro , detected a P0530 A/C Refrigerant Pressure Sensor A Circuit Malfunction , witch not detected by torque pro app and that code lead to that point you talked about , the switch is trying to disengage the clutch but no response
Thanks for that app advise
and thaaaaaanks all
@Mooseman @TJBaker57 @Mektek @c good for the very helpfull info